Wednesday, November 16, 2016

The Reason She Cried

What was it about getting a doll house, that made a 43 year old woman cry?  Was it because she had always dreamed of one?  Was it because it was the exact replica of her "real" house?  Yes...and no. 

The doll house




I am that 43 year old woman, and yes I cried when my father-in-law, Tooger,  presented me this doll house. 



If you read my former post, you know that my mother-in-law recently passed away.  During a family dinner, the night before her service, we were looking through the family albums.  I came across a photo of my husband, as a young boy, playing with a large doll house.  I learned that Tooger had built it.  I said how jealous I was, because I had always wanted a doll house like that.  Someone may have made a comment about building one like our current house, but it was quickly dropped and I didn't think anymore about it.  Until it showed up in my loft!

I was touched so deeply because I felt seen and heard.  He heard my heart and put in the effort to build it for me.

It wasn't just about a doll house, but the need we all have; a deep longing to be known and loved; worthy of someone's effort.  While my Father-"in-love" showed me a tangible example of this, it is God who ultimately satisfies our deepest longing.

God is the one who knows us completely:
O Lord, You have searched me and known me.
You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
You understand my thought from afar.
You scrutinize my path and my lying down,
And are intimately acquainted with all my ways.
Even before there is a word on my tongue,
Behold, O Lord, You know it all. 13 For You formed my inward parts;
You wove me in my mother’s womb. Psalm 139:1-4, 13


God is the one who loves us perfectly :
See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God; and such we are.  1 John 3:1

God is the one who decided we were worth the effort:
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8  16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. John 3:16

Praise be to God!

Saturday, November 5, 2016

Will My kitten Go To Heaven?

Will my kitten go to heaven?  I don't know.  What I do know is...heaven came down through my kitten.  What?!

Let me back up a bit and explain what I mean.  My husband, Michael, and I are not pet people.  He is allergic, I am a cleany, and it isn't practical, for as much traveling as we like to do.  However, around September 12, 2016 a tiny, lost, black and white kitten showed up on our doorstep.  She was so sweet and hungry.  So, we fed her, tamed her, and built her a house.  We were instantly smitten and decided to keep her (outside of course). 

Upon taking her to the vet, we learned a kitten matching her description had been lost from there.  How she traveled from town out to our house in the country was a mystery.  My heart sank thinking I would have to return her.  The owner, however, was happy to find her a new home.

On Spetember 17th, our world was rocked with the sudden death of Michael's mother; my mother-in-love.  To be honest, I am still trying to adjust to this new reality.  She is with Jesus, so we rejoice for her, but grieve the fellowship we have lost for now.

During that first week, our mystery kitten was a great comfort.  We even started letting her come in and sleep on a special blanket in the evenings.
It was one of those evenings, while she was sprawled out on my lap, that I noticed the shape of the white marking on her chest...a heart



I believe God is in the details and cares greatly for us.  I believe He sent this kitten.  The love of the Trinity, sent down from heaven, in the form a kitten bearing the mark of love, to comfort us in our time of need.

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

The Lonely Goose

This spring and summer our pond was full of Canadian Geese.  We even had a gaggle of babies.  It is turning to fall now, and they are heading south.  All that is...except one.  We have one goose left.  Unable to fly due to an injured wing. 

The other day, as I drove down the driveway, my heart was sad for this lonely goose; sad that it could not join the others; sad that it could not fly the way it was meant to.  Can you imagine being created to fly and stuck on the ground?  I can...

I know what it is like to be unable to do what I was created to do.  I was born a woman, created to bear children, but have been unable to do so.  As devastating a feeling as that was, in that moment, gazing at our lone goose, it was not myself who came to mind, but God.

It was Jesus' words in Matthew 23:37 that came to mind, "“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing."  Oh how it must grieve God to watch us go on making mud pies in the slums when infinite joy has been offered us!

We are not living as we were meant to.  We were created for Eden.  We were created to live in the joy of God's presence. We were created to soar!  

Do you not know?
    Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
    the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
    and his understanding no one can fathom.
29 He gives strength to the weary
    and increases the power of the weak.
30 Even youths grow tired and weary,
    and young men stumble and fall;
31 but those who hope in the Lord
    will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
    they will run and not grow weary,
    they will walk and not be faint.
Isaiah 40:28-31


As long as it is called "Today", let us not be deceived by sin's deceitfulness, and turn away from the living God. (Hebrews 3:12-13)  By the power of the Holy Spirit we CAN be transformed, day by day, into the children of God we were meant to be.  "Let us draw near to God with a sincere heart and with the full assurance that faith brings.. Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful." (Hebrews 10:22-23)

Monday, August 22, 2016

Uniqueness Without Comparison

As I was driving yesterday, from my home to the next town over, I was overcome with the beauty of the scenery.  I wish I had stopped and captured it for you, but my description will have to do.  It was a long, straight stretch of highway.  On either side were fields of crops, dark green, in their summer glory.  The sky was a brilliant blue dotted all about with perfect, white, puffy clouds.  The scene stretched out before me was glorious and made me thankful to live in the Midwest.

This after a summer of less than ideal Midwest weather.  Maybe that is why it was such a beautiful, perfect day.  Or maybe, after studying about God that morning, He had given me new eyes to see it as He did.

In that moment, as my ordinary Midwest town was transformed into a site as beautiful as any I had seen, I realized that beauty has no bounds, it comes in all different varieties.  I have been blessed to be able to travel all over the U.S. and some abroad.  This world has many amazing places.  But I have been just as in awe of the barren Badlands, as I have the crystal clear waters of the Caribbean, or the majestic Rocky Mountains. 

You see, that morning I had been reading about the two sons and the Father in Henri Nouwen's book, The Return of the Prodigal.  The younger son had wandered away, while the older stayed home.  The Father celebrated the return of the younger son!  The older son was not too happy about that, but he too was invited into the Father's joy.  In fact, all the Father had was available to the older son, it always had been. 

We live in this earthly land of comparison, always labeling one thing better than another, or striving to get what we think we deserve, and we project that on God...but that is not God.  He loves perfectly with a divine love that allows for uniqueness without comparison.  His love rejoices with the truth, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things...His love never fails! (1 Corinthians 13)  With God, His love and joy in one does not take away from another; all are deeply loved; all can come to be forgiven.  His love is a transforming love that makes all things new, brings beauty from ashes, and turns mourning into dancing. 

So, wherever you find yourself to be, may you find yourself enveloped in God's amazing love and the unique beauty that surrounds you! 

Friday, April 1, 2016

Boy Wonder

On our recent trip to the beach, we decided to take a walk along the shore.  As we were walking, a little boy ran right in front of us.  He was oblivious to our presence, because his attention was on something far more interesting. As he ran by I heard him exclaim to his sister, "Look what I found!"  In his hand was a shell, or some other wonder he had discovered at the edge of the sea.  My thoughts went to Eden.

Is this what God meant it to be like?  This boy wonder?  When you think about the vastness of God's creation, the magnitude of it's beauty, do you ever wonder why?  Why did He go to such lengths?  Is it really all necessary?

I believe it shows us the extravagant nature of our God.  I think we were meant to live like that little boy; constantly amazed at new and wonderful discoveries, at the glory of God.

I read recently, in a book by Mark Batterson, that Arnold Summerfield, a German physicist and pianist, discovered that a single hydrogen atom is more musical than a grand piano (100 frequencies vs. 88).  "Every single atom is a unique expression of God's creative genius...every atom echos that original melody sung in three-part harmony by the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  Research in "bioacoustics" has revealed that we are surrounded by millions of ultrasonic songs."  How cool is that?!

I was reminded of Luke 19:37-40, "As soon as He was approaching, near the descent of the Mount of Olives, the whole crowd of the disciples began to praise God joyfully with a loud voice for all the miracles which they had seen, shouting: “Blessed is the King who comes in the name of the Lord; Peace in heaven and glory in the highest!”  Some of the Pharisees in the crowd said to Him, “Teacher, rebuke Your disciples.”  But Jesus answered, “I tell you, if these become silent, the stones will cry out!”  It seems they already are. ;)

We were created to worship God and sing of His excellencies!  Will we join in with the rest of creation?  Come, let us exalt His name together!

Psalm 96

Sing to the Lord a new song;
Sing to the Lord, all the earth.
2 Sing to the Lord, bless His name;
Proclaim good tidings of His salvation from day to day.
3 Tell of His glory among the nations,
His wonderful deeds among all the peoples.
4 For great is the Lord and greatly to be praised;
He is to be feared above all gods.
5 For all the gods of the peoples are idols,
But the Lord made the heavens.
6 Splendor and majesty are before Him,
Strength and beauty are in His sanctuary.
7 Ascribe to the Lord, O families of the peoples,
Ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.
8 Ascribe to the Lord the glory of His name;
Bring an offering and come into His courts.
9 Worship the Lord in holy attire;
Tremble before Him, all the earth.
10 Say among the nations, “The Lord reigns;
Indeed, the world is firmly established, it will not be moved;
He will judge the peoples with equity.”
11 Let the heavens be glad, and let the earth rejoice;
Let the sea roar, and all it contains;
12 Let the field exult, and all that is in it.
Then all the trees of the forest will sing for joy
13 Before the Lord, for He is coming,
For He is coming to judge the earth.
He will judge the world in righteousness
And the peoples in His faithfulness.

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

From Seashell to Sand

 "If I find in myself desires which nothing in this world can satisfy, the only logical explanation is that I was made for another world.”
― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

The above quote has become dear to me, as I am daily faced with suffering in this world.  I love happy endings!  In my heart I ache for a place with no pain or sorrow.  I hate goodbyes!  In the deepest part of me there is a knowledge of right and wrong, and that I was made for something more.  And so, with C.S. Lewis, I conclude that I must be made for another world.  A world where beauty, not brokenness is the norm.  And I believe one day, when Christ returns for His bride, we will know that world.  But what about now?

Recently I was able to escape to the beach for a few days of rest.  While reading my book, I looked down at the sand.  Pieces of it glittered in the sun.  Individual pieces of the whole.  I picked up a handful and let it fall through my fingers.  As I did so, God spoke beauty to my heart.  A beauty made from brokenness.

Have you ever really looked at sand and contemplated its makeup?  Tiny pieces of shells; once whole but now broken by the crashing waves of the sea.  The sea, which houses life and death.

Shells are amazing in design, they are home to sea creatures, and have many varieties.  An individual shell is a thing of beauty.  But an individual shell can only be enjoyed by a few and they are easily broken.

At first a broken shell is disfigured, sharp, and not much use.  But over time, when it has been pounded by the waves repeatedly, it becomes something more.  It is still individual pieces, but they are softened and join together with others to form a vast beach.  A beach consisting of sand that beckons people to sink their toes in, build castles or just relax against its soft warmth.

We are like those shells.  We are beautiful.  We are easily broken.  We become wounded, disfigured and not very useful.  We may even hurt others who come close.  If we remain self-protective, our beauty, gifts and talents will only reach so far.  But if we will surrender to what the Lord is doing as the waves of trials break over us, we can become like the sand.

We will be part of the greater story God is telling; a part of the whole, working together in community; being filled and filling others with joy and peace for the glory of God.  Then our brokenness will be beautiful.  So, even now, while we wait for the ultimate reality, we can begin to experience His restoration.  His beauty alive in us. Christ in us, the hope of glory! (Colossians 1:27)